Category Romance

Manga comics, blazing neon, speeding trains, supersized pedestrian crossings – Japan might not immediately inspire a vision of traditional romance, but don’t be fooled. With subtropical beaches, soothing hot springs and an array of world-class food, it’s easy for lovers to be seduced by this extraordinary country.

Fast fun in Tokyo – and its antidote in Fuji

For couples, there’s something undeniable about Tokyo: it simply insists you have fun. Warble your hearts out in a karaoke booth for two, watch the sunset over the city from the Tokyo Metropolitan Government Building observatory, cruise Tokyo Bay aboard Jicoo the Floating Bar, or get cosy in the alleyways and tiny drinking dens of Shinjuku’s Golden Gai. If sanctity calls, head to the Dai-jingū shrine, where couples seek good luck in love.

Eat

You won’t go hungry in the capital: Tokyo has more restaurants per capita than any other city on the planet. For sheer indulgence, head to Tokyo Aman’s 33rd-floor restaurant (aman.com) for exquisite fusion food: think melt-in the-mouth wagyū (Japanese beef) accompanied by buttery Brussels sprouts, with a side order of jaw-dropping views. For a more simple old-world atmosphere closer to ground level, try Hantei, serving kushiage (skewers of fried meat, fish and vegetables) in an historic wooden building designated as an important cultural property.

Stay

The Fuji Five Lakes region is just an hour’s train ride from the capital and unlocks incredible views of Japan’s most iconic mountain. While Mt Fuji can be climbed in summer, it’s arguably best appreciated from afar. Stay at Hoshinoya Fuji, where floor-to-ceiling windows in snug cabins encourage mountain-gazing in complete seclusion. With woodland tours, horse-riding and mushroom-picking, this place offers bucolic romance, but if all that sounds too energetic, simply toast some marshmallows and lounge in a hammock strung between scented pines. If you can’t drag yourselves away from the action of Tokyo, boutique Hotel S offers stylish rooms right near the nightlife of Roppongi, including a ‘Zen’ room with a circular wooden bath.

A taste of tradition in Kyoto and Osaka

It doesn’t take much for romance to blossom in Kyoto. This ancient city of silent temples and winding lanes feels ready-made for hand-in-hand exploring. Find your happy place amid the gentle sway of Arashiyama’s Bamboo Grove (arrive early to avoid the crowds), or be enchanted by the Fushimi Inari-Taisha torii (shine gates), where a detour from the main trail means having the quiet woodland all to yourselves. In the evening, take a stroll along the cobbled, lantern-lit streets of traditional geisha district Gion, or contemplate your love while walking the canalside Path of Philosophy.

Stay

Kyoto is known for its ryokan (traditional inns), unmissable for visitors keen to enjoy the country’s legendary hospitality. Kyoto boasts some of the most refined ryokan in the country, such as the intimate and welcoming Tawaraya, a 300-year-old inn unrivalled for its attentive staff and profound sense of calm. Here each small room looks out onto its own private garden, guests bathe in cedar-wood hot tubs, and staff quietly polish and scent your shoes while you shuffle about the ryokan in pillow-soft slippers. For a longer stay and completely private getaway, you could instead rent a floor in your own machiya (wooden townhouse). Old Kyoto has three houses to choose from, all close to Gion.

Eat

In Kyoto, kaiseki (Japanese haute cuisine) reigns supreme. This fine-dining experience involves being served a parade of small dishes carefully chosen based on the season, usually including vegetables, tempura, pickles, fish and soup. Kikunoi is one of the best places to try it. For a more purse-friendly option, go to Tagoto Honten; the lunch menu offers a great introduction to this intimate style of cuisine. Those who prefer more casual dining can head to the nearby city of Osaka, 30 minutes by fast train from Kyoto. More casual doesn’t have to mean lacking in atmosphere, though: take a stroll on the Tombori River Walk alongside Dōtombori canal while grazing lazily on street-stall takoyaki (grilled octopus dumplings); or try to nab a seat overlooking the canal at okonomiyaki (savoury pancake) restaurant Chibō, where the house special Dōtombori yaki (with pork, beef, squid, shrimp and cheese) is something of an institution.

Rural tranquility in Wakayama Prefecture

Get off the beaten track with one of Japan’s most enticing ancient pilgrimage routes, the Kumano Kodō, about three hours by train south of Osaka, in Wakayama Prefecture. This region is lovely year-round and enjoys more temperate climes that other parts of central Honshū. Through pine forests, tiny villages, waterfalls and hidden shrines, the walk is a verdant delight from start to end with routes available from a day to a week. Kumano Travel (tb-kumano.jp/en/kumano-travel), a government-led and community-based initiative, can help arrange itineraries. Alternatively, head to the mountaintop monastic centre of Kōya-san. It might not sound like a lovers’ paradise, but its extraordinary temple lodgings, eerie forested cemetery and grand pagodas will furnish you with a whole new perspective on devotion. Arriving via the vertiginous cable car is half the fun.

Stay

At Kawayu Onsen Fujiya, couples too shy to bare all in traditional communal onsen (where nudity is obligatory) can opt for a room with a private bath perched on its balcony. Or go public and take the plunge in the river directly in front of the ryokan, where hot-spring water bubbles up enticingly.

Eat

Overnight visitors to Kōya-san will sample shōjin ryōri, a Buddhist vegetarian style of cooking that focuses on balance and simplicity. Dishes might include silken tofu with sesame paste and wasabi, or crispy aubergine topped with caramelised miso. Monks deliver supper to your personal chamber and retreat from sight, leaving you alone to marvel from your tatami mats at their edible masterpieces.

Beach bumming on Okinawa and the Southwest Islands

Surprisingly under-the-radar, Okinawa’s sandy stretches and coral-fringed waters are the backdrop to a culture emphatically more laid-back and slower-paced than that of ‘mainland’ Japan. A short flight from main city Naha on Okinawa-hontō, the Keramas are tiny white-sand islands in crystal waters; while the more remote Yaeyamas offer wilder experiences, with lush mangrove swamps and jungles to explore. Unesco-listed Yakushima, further north, is famed for its mountainous interior covered with mossy ancient cedar trees.

Stay

Tsundara Beach Retreat on Ishigaki-jima in the Yaeyamas is a dream for those wanting to get away from it all. Nestled between ocean and forest, its tropical ambience, sun-drenched terrace and private beach will have you falling in love all over again. Activities range from diving and snorkelling to ziplining through the jungle canopy. And it’s exclusive: you’ll have the whole place to yourselves. On Yakushima, watch the waves from your private veranda, and soak in the outdoor bath at family-run ryokan Sōyōtei. Or go for full pampering at Sankara Hotel & Spa.

Eat

Get a taste of island-style Japanese cuisine on Ishigaki-jima with a wander through Ishigakijima Village, a collection of small restaurants, including some serving local specialities such as Ishigaki beef and Okinawa soba (thick white udon noodles in a pork broth). Follow it up with a sip of awamori (Okinawan liquor distilled from rice) or beer at cosy local favourite Cafe Taniwha. In Naha, opt for a multicourse evening meal at hilltop Nuchigafu,

A little more action in Hokkaidō

Less about admiring temples and gazing at each other across a raked Zen garden, Hokkaidō is for couples who like to play together. Japan’s northernmost island is home to miles of wilderness, mountains, and volcanic landscapes dotted with bubbling onsen, but most come here for a different reason: powder. In winter, skiers and snowboarders head for Niseko and Furano, and in February crowds gather at Sapporo Snow Festival’s wonderland of snow sculptures. In the summer months, it’s all about hiking in national parks, including Shiretoko, Akan, and Japan’s largest, Daisetsuzan.

Stay

Enjoy the warm timbered decor and onsen at Lodge Nutapukaushipe in Daisetsuzan, or the lake views and artwork at Marukibune in the Ainu village in Akan. For the novelty factor: in January and February snuggle together at the Ice Hotel at Hoshino Resorts Tomamu (snowtomamu.jp), in central Hokkaidō. There’s even an Ice Chapel next door if you make plans to tie the knot on your trip.

Eat

The homely lamp-lit, arts-and-crafts-bedecked Poronno in Akan is a top place to try some Ainu specialities, including potato dumplings and preserved venison. In ski-resort Niseko, head to popular Niseko Loft Club to bond over a shared platter of grill-your-own meat.

Jessica Cole travelled to Japan with support from Aman Tokyo (aman.com) and Kumano Travel (kumano-travel.com). Lonely Planet contributors do not accept freebies in exchange for positive coverage.

Nashville is one of the most popular tourist destinations in the country, and it’s not hard to see what draws millions of visitors to Music City year after year. Between the amazing restaurants, historic sites, museums, festivals, and world-class live shows playing everywhere all the time, it’s honestly difficult to not have fun here.

Planning a trip to Nashville? Get excited. Here’s a guide to choosing the perfect hotel for you.

Best hotel in Nashville for families: Gaylord Opryland Resort

Of course you want to explore the city, but when you’re traveling with a big group with varied (and often conflicting) interests, having a bounty of activities on the property is a hotel perk that’s hard to beat. Gaylord Opryland Resort definitely delivers, with SoundWaves, a state-of-the-art indoor/outdoor waterpark, nine acres of indoor gardens (with waterfalls!), and more than 15 restaurants on the premises.

The Grand Ole Opry and Opry Mills Mall are both within walking distance, and a shuttle can take you downtown (a 15-minute drive) to enjoy all the rest of the fun Nashville has to offer. Fair warning, though: you might not ever get around to leaving the hotel. There’s that much to do here.

Best Nashville option for budget travelers: Millennium Maxwell House

If you’ve done a search of accommodations in Nashville, you know it’s nearly impossible to find a room in the city for less than $200 a night. Millennium Maxwell House is one of the rare exceptions – many of this historic hotel’s 287 country music-themed rooms can still be had for around $200. Hang out at the property’s saltwater pool or catch the free shuttle downtown to hit up the honky tonks and museums with a little more money in your pocket.

Traveling with friends to Music City? Check out Graduate Nashville

Nashville is a popular destination for friend vacations. How to choose where to stay when there are so many options? Opt for a place that’s perfectly located, ridiculously Instagrammable and surprisingly affordable: the Graduate Nashville. A midtown location offers easy access to downtown, Centennial Park, Hillsboro Village and the Gulch. You’ll find plenty of group photo opps in the bright, wildly decorated lobby and themed rooms, including colorful paintings of country stars and no shortage of velvet.

The best part, though? Behind a door disguised with floral wallpaper, you’ll find Cross-Eyed Critters Watering Hole, a karaoke bar where singers are backed by an animatronic band plucked out of a 90s kids’ party. It’s a fever dream that’s best experienced with a group of friends who are not afraid to laugh at themselves and lean into the silliness (and hit the high notes).

Best for a pool party: Virgin Hotels Nashville

More than just a place to bed down for the night in Music City, Virgin Hotels Nashville comes through with rooftop pool party vibes. Think live music, cocktails, and endless views. Just as swanky, the downstairs bar/patio is an equally cool alternative to hang out and soak up the atmosphere of this popular boutique hotel (but without the swimsuits!).

Rooms are spacious, modern and stylish, and the hospitality is second to none — this is Nashville after all.

On-site dining is available but beyond breakfast why stay and eat in one place all day and night? Get out into Nashville for the best food experiences. You can walk to the main hotspots of Nashville from here. And book ahead, if you can, for the best room rate deals.

Solo travelers in Nashville, head to Vandyke Bed and Beverage

If you’re traveling to Nashville on your own, do yourself a favor and stay in East Nashville. This lively section of the city offers a totally different vibe from downtown’s rowdy honky tonk crowd, with a wide selection of unique coffee shops, bars, restaurants and concert venues to explore.

The Vandyke Bed and Beverage is a new boutique hotel with a prime location in East Nashville. With a lively bar and patio just downstairs, all you need to do to make new friends is plop down on a barstool – perfect for solo travelers. You’ll be just a few minutes from downtown but can spend your time eating, drinking and shopping your way through the surrounding coffee shops, restaurants and boutiques in this quirky neighborhood. At the end of the day, treat yourself to a fun twist on a classic cocktail, like the Vandyke’s “Trashmopolitan.”

Best hotel in Nashville for romantic getaways: Noelle

Every last detail of this stylish boutique hotel Noelle has been thoughtfully curated by tastemakers and experts, and the result is a luxurious, sexy, Mad Men-inspired experience, from the stunning art deco lobby to the artisan coffee shop and the speakeasy downstairs aptly titled Hidden Bar.

A few blocks from Broadway, Noelle’s location makes it a great launchpad to experience all of downtown’s raucous entertainment knowing you can come back for a chill nightcap by the fireplace at Rare Bird, the hotel’s rooftop bar with gorgeous views of the city. Retire to your luxurious and stylish room, enjoy morning coffee delivery, then go back to bed. Heaven.

Celebrities and luxury lovers book the Hermitage Hotel

If your taste can be described as “only the best,” then you need to check into the Hermitage Hotel for your stay in Nashville. The preferred home base of visiting celebrities and touring pop stars, The Hermitage is a five-star hotel with a perfect mix of modern amenities and old school Nashville magic. The lobby’s ornately painted ceilings, fireplaces and luxe velvet armchairs set the opulent tone, while the spacious rooms boast custom-made, hand-tufted mattresses, Bose speakers and stunning views of the Tennessee Capitol.

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Even in a country where gorgeous beaches are two a penny, the Italians admit that those in Sardinia are particularly bellissima. The island regularly tops polls of the world’s best beaches, with spiagge (beaches) ranging from the rugged, cliff-backed coves of the east to the dune-flanked strands of the west.

Sardinia’s snow-white beaches and bluer-than-blue seas are often likened to the Caribbean – but why, quite frankly, would you want to imagine yourself anywhere else?

Best for escapists: Is Aruttas

Spearing into the Golfo di Oristano, the beaches on the Sinis Peninsula rank among the island’s loveliest, though ideally you need your own car to reach them. Fairest of all is Is Aruttas, an arc frosted with white sand and tiny pebbles that make the water appear a startling shade of aquamarine. For years its quartz sand was carted off for aquariums and beaches on the Costa Smeralda, but no more.

Bored of flopping on the beach? The nearby holiday resort of Putzu Idu attracts surfers, windsurfers and kitesurfers. Or take a boat trip to bare, rocky Isola di Mal di Ventre (Stomach Ache Island), which owes its name to the sea-sickness that sailors often suffered whilst navigating its windy waters.

Best for families: Chia

What the resort of Chia lacks in charm, it more than makes up for with enticing views. To see what all the fuss is about, head up to the Spanish watchtower and look down on its pretty pair of beaches – Spiaggia Sa Colonia to the west and horseshoe-shaped Spiaggia Su Portu to the east. Both have pale sands and shallow waters. Flamingos wade in the lagoon behind the beach.

Fancy a road trip? The panoramic SP71 road dips and rises for 25km along the Costa del Sud, one of southern Sardinia’s most beautiful coastal stretches.

Best for solitude: Spiaggia di Piscinas

It’s worth going the extra mile to the Costa Verde (Green Coast) for a glimpse of the Sardinian coast at its wildest. Hands down one of the loveliest beaches is Spiaggia di Piscinas, a ribbon of golden sand running between a windswept sea and a vast expanse of dunes flecked by hardy green scrub. The towering dunes rise up to 60m. Find the beach down a 9km dirt track off the SS126 (Ingurtosu exit).

Want more? Slide over to neighboring Spiaggia di Scivu. Backed by huge dunes, the 3km lick of fine sand is wonderfully secluded.

Best for swimming: Spiaggia Rena Bianca

Santa Teresa di Gallura’s main beach is a beauty, with a swathe of pale sand and some of the clearest, shallowest water on the island, making it a cracking choice for a proper swim – even for families with small children. From Spiaggia Rena Bianca you can gaze out across the Strait of Bonifacio’s spectrum of blues over to Corsica and up to the 16th-century Torre di Longonsardo.

From the beach’s eastern tip a trail threads along the coast, past granite boulders and rock formations that fire the imagination with their incredible shapes. More spectacular still is Capo Testa, 4km west of Santa Teresa, with its giant, wind-licked granite boulders and trails threading through the scrub to rocky coves and the cobalt Mediterranean.

Best for white sands: Spiaggia della Pelosa

A ravishing sweep of beach, 2.5km north of Stintino, Spiaggia della Pelosa elicits gasps of wonder with its fine sand and shallow sea that fades from aquamarine to topaz. It’s presided over by a Catalan-Aragonese watchtower across the water on the craggy Isola Piana. The beach is packed in July and August, so avoid these months for a more peaceful experience.

While you’re here, take the boat over to the Isola dell’Asinara, a national park named after its resident albino donkeys. The island is best explored on foot or by bike. Or join the windsurfers catching the breeze off Stintino.

Best celebrity hideaway: Spiaggia del Principe

A number of beautiful coves necklace the fabulous swoop of coastline where Gallura’s wind-whipped granite mountains tumble down to fjordlike inlets in the emerald sea. One of the finest is the Spiaggia del Principe, a stunning crescent of pale sand snuggled among low cliffs named after Prince Karim Aga Khan, who has given it his seal of approval.

Bear in mind that the Costa Smeralda is saturated with Italian holidaymakers in July and August, so shun these months for cheaper room rates and quieter beaches.

Best for hikers and climbers: Cala Goloritzè

One of the loveliest bays you’re ever likely to clap eyes on, Cala Goloritzè nestles in the southern crook of the Golfo di Orosei. We can wax lyrical about how the sea shimmers like blue curaçao and bizarre limestone formations fling up from cliffs draped in holm oaks, but seeing really is believing. The Aguglia, a 148m high needle of rock that towers over the beach, is a magnet for climbers.

The beach is around an hour’s walk descending on the old mule trail from the Altopiano del Golgo, a strange, other-worldly plateau where goats, pigs and donkeys graze. A signposted road from Baunei climbs 2km of impossibly steep switchbacks to the plateau.

Best for boat touring: Golfo di Orosei

Where the Gennargentu mountains collide spectacularly with the sea, the huge sweeping crescent of the Golfo di Orosei is no one-hit-wonder when it comes to beaches. Base yourself, say, in Cala Gonone to strike out along the coast on foot or by boat.

If you do nothing else, cruise along the ‘Blue Crescent’, which is honeycombed with grottoes and hidden coves, where limestone cliffs sheer above crystal-clear sea. Rock climbers spider up the cliffs of wildly beautiful Cala Luna, backed by a ravine and pummelled by exquisite turquoise waters. Cala Sisine, Cala Biriola, Cala Mariolu – each cove here is more mind-blowingly beautiful than the next.

Best for exotic vibes: Cala Brandinchi

Undeniably the loveliest of San Teodoro’s beaches, Cala Brandinchi is often dubbed ‘Little Tahiti’ and it really does live up to the hype. The bay is a thin arc of soft sand lapped by crystalline turquoise waters and surrounded by pine woods. The hump of Isola Tavolara rises on the horizon.

Touring the coast reveals a scattering of other beach beauties, such as Spiaggia La Cinta, with sugar-fine sand and topaz sea. The beach attracts kitesurfers and birdwatchers who head to Stagno San Teodoro to spot pink flamingos, herons, little egrets and kingfishers.

Best for island-hoppers: La Maddalena

Part of a cluster of pink granite islands and islets forming the Parco Nazionale dell’Arcipelago di La Maddalena, Isola Maddalena dangles off the northeastern tip of Sardinia in the wind-buffed Strait of Bonifacio between Sardinia and Corsica. It’s a terrific base for boating around the island’s fabulous coves, jewel-coloured waters and granite licked into weird natural sculptures. Elena Tour is a good choice for boat tours.

Or hop across to its wild, serene sister, Isola Caprera, with pine trees cloaking granite cliffs and several tempting coves. Giuseppe Garibaldi, revolutionary and all-round Italian hero, loved Caprera and made it his home and refuge at the Compendio Garibaldino.

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One of the Whitsundays’ greatest treasures, Hamilton Island is like nowhere else in Australia. It’s a haven of pure and sophisticated calm, largely thanks to most of the island getting around using golf carts (apart from public buses and the police) and the fact there are only 1200 staff and residents present. Island roads head up far above the sea, leading the way to plenty of things to see and do, including grand viewpoints to admire the mesmerising azure waters from.

Island romance

Hamilton Island is undoubtedly one of the most picturesque spots in Australia; proving a popular honeymoon and anniversary spot for many. Opportunities for romancing are endless – both on water and land.

Cuddle up on a private cruise; some sail to the famed and unspoiled Whitehaven Beach, others take place at sunset and offer dinner on board. You may even catch some cheerful dolphins competitively racing against your vessel of transport, or if you’re lucky enough humpback whales – in the area from July to October.

Get adventurous

Paragliding, paddle boarding, parasailing – the waters are an unrivalled playground. Aside from the much heralded Great Barrier Reef, some of the best snorkelling in the country is speckled around Catseye Bay and Driftwood Bay, blessed with charismatic coral reefs and colourful fish of all sizes darting about within them. Kayaking in calmer spots is also a great way to explore. Keep your eyes peeled for green turtles swimming peacefully in more shallow waters.

Back on land, the island plays host to a Buggy Rally run by the Sports Club, a great way to acquaint yourself with restaurants, shops and other major landmarks. In groups of four people maximum, teams must drive around the island and answer a series of questions related to it. Think of it like a mini Amazing Race; first place scores a prize!

If you’d like to ramp up the speed that little bit more (buggies only go up to 40km per hour), go go-karting! Ideal for groups wanting to channel their competitive sides.

The island is graced with plenty of hiking trails that meander through its iconic, verdant terrain. If you’re up for a challenge, embark on a hike up to Passage Peak on the northeast section of the island. Commencing on the Scenic Trail, followed by the Saddle Trail, the peak reveals an utterly rewarding view of not just the island itself, but the broader Whitsundays.

Avid golfers will be familiar with the world-class Hamilton Island Golf Club (actually located on adjacent Dent Island). They can expect to lose some balls, not due to lack of skill, but the distraction of the stunning coral-blue sea. Golfer or not, it’s still worth a visit, the elegant clubhouse is perfect for a drink or lunch.

Culinary indulgence to remember

For casual meals when walking the main strip, there’s Bob’s Bakery and a super fresh fish and chip shop. But memorable meals on Hamilton Island are a little more upmarket.

If you ask the locals, Coca Chu is unanimously the island’s best restaurant, serving up Asian-inspired dishes with a modern Australian kiss. Long Pavilion at Qualia is the most exclusive option, only open to guests of the hotel or by invitation. Diners can choose between four, six, eight or 10 courses; and menus are structured depending on what’s in season.

The Yacht Club’s Bommie Restaurant is another fine-diner, flaunting what can be made from the best of local seafood including reef fish and Mooloolaba bugs. There’s also a tasting menu if you don’t feel like making any decisions.

Splash out on some serious luxury

The northern tip of the island is home to the $100 million, six-star ultra-resort Qualia. It’s celebrated as one of Australia’s most epic resorts, awarded with numerous national and international accolades. If you can’t afford to stay, you could still splash out on a visit to the spa. Choose from diverse massage treatments, facial and body therapies, in stunningly designed rooms that look out to lush bushland and the waters that encompass it. Couples packages are also available.

Whether you want to drift through turquoise lagoons, trek along otherworldly coastlines or simply do nothing at all, your honeymoon is all about doing exactly what you (and your beloved) want to do.

Whatever that may be, there’s one thing we all know for sure: there’s no better place to celebrate love than on an island. Here are 13 island escapes that offer something for everyone – meaning you’re sure to find your perfect slice of honeymoon paradise.

1. St Vincent & the Grenadines

For dreamy island-hopping

This group of 32 small isles is ideal for those who fancy a Caribbean boat experience but don’t want to splurge on a private yacht. Public ferries hop up and down the Grenadines island chain, delivering on-deck local culture and the opportunity to find the island that suits you best, from unspoiled Union to exclusive Canouan. In other words, perfect for honeymooners who want to bring a touch of independence to their Caribbean vacation.

2. Menorca, Spain

For anyone committed to sustainable travel

Welcome to the easternmost point of Spain – a soulful, sun-soaked, beach-wrapped jewel of an island washed by the sparkling Balearic Sea, where sustainability has been the cornerstone of local tourism long before it became a buzzword. Declared a Unesco Biosphere Reserve back in 1993, beautiful Menorca boasts inspiringly designed agroturismos (rural hotels), mystifying Bronze Age ruins, rippling wetlands, pine-scented coastal trails and a string of the country’s most exquisite beaches. From its blissfully protected beaches to its strong gastronomic heritage, this go-slow island is making waves as a responsible-travel destination – and is the perfect spot for any couple looking for a sustainable honeymoon.

3. Quirimbas Archipelago, Mozambique

For dhow cruising and history

Why pick one island for your honeymoon when you can have 30? That’s about how many specks of wonderful white sand make up this Indian Ocean archipelago in Mozambique. Among them is Ibo, home to the 16th-century Portuguese trading settlement of Ilha de Moçambique – a must-see. After a dose of history here, sail between the islands – remote Vamizi, deluxe Quilalea – stopping off on nameless cays for lobster barbecues along the way. It’s the perfect spot for a couple looking to get off the beaten path.

4. Hvar, Croatia

For glamour, beauty and wine tasting

A favorite of the smart set who flock here in summer, Hvar is the sunniest and most glamorous of Croatia’s Dalmatian islands. Just 90 minutes from Split by ferry, Hvar appeals from the first moment. From the marble streets and Gothic and Renaissance palaces of handsome Hvar Town to quiet fishing villages and hidden coves lapped by crystalline waters to superb food and wine, this is quite simply a glorious place to hang out. Inland, fields are blanketed in lavender, rosemary and heather; along the coast, it’s easy to find deserted beaches outside of the busy summer months. Settle down in a whitewashed town, tour a winery, dine like a king and soak up some sun: a honeymoon doesn’t get much better than this.

5. Tasmania, Australia

For a taste of all things Australian

Australia’s lush southern island state is where you’ll find some of the country’s best food and wine, epic mountains, cool lakes and fabulous hiking terrain. Just outside the charming capital Hobart, MONA is a world-class museum that will simply blow your mind; it even has its own in-house brewery, winery and restaurant complex (and, now, accommodations in plush, futuristic pods). In the north, the otherworldly Bay of Fires offers a stunning beach hike that culminates with flair at an award-winning eco-lodge.

6. Corsica, France

For hikes, hills, haute cuisine and hidden sands

Afloat in the Mediterranean, this rugged part of France deserves its moniker: L’île de beauté. The craggy, maquis-cloaked interior – where you can easily forget the world – tumbles to perfect golden beaches, some touristy, some seemingly undiscovered. There’s wildness if you want it (the hiking is some of Europe’s best), but also fine food and indulgent retreats, not least Domaine de Murtoli – possibly the continent’s most romantic hideaway.

7. Tioman, Malaysia

For waterfalls, local life and sublime sand

West is best when it comes to beaches in Malaysia, and Pulau Tioman, 56km (35 miles) off the coast of Peninsular Malaysia, has some of the dreamiest. The fine sands and warm, crystal-clear waters fringe an adventurous interior of waterfall-filled jungle, while laid-back fishing villages ensure the island retains a local feel. It’s the perfect place to escape after a hectic period of wedding planning.

8. Isla Mujeres, Mexico

For an escape from Cancún

Just off the coast of Cancún, this tiny, pencil-thin island feels a world away from the hubbub of Mexico’s largest beach resort. With its tranquil turquoise waters, white sands and prismatic corals along the Mesoamerican Barrier Reef, the island was revered by the Maya as a sanctuary for Ixchel, the jaguar goddess of midwifery and medicine. Today, its devotees are drawn by sun and sand. The scuba diving is sublime, the mood is laid-back (golf carts are the only transportation here) and the margaritas go down like lemonade as the sun plunges into the Caribbean Sea.

9. Zanzibar, Tanzania

For a heady escape to a beautiful coast

Bathed in spice-laden trade winds down through the centuries and beloved by travelers looking for a multi-layered Indian Ocean escape, Zanzibar is an East African destination unlike anywhere else. The island’s cultural and historical stories come to life in the exquisite architecture of Stone Town, in the enticing smells from spice warehouses along the waterfront on a steamy tropical afternoon, and in the call to prayer that animates the tangle of alleys unchanged for centuries. It’s also an island of swaying palm trees, perfect sunsets and incredible fun, both on and under the water.

10. Huahine, French Polynesia

For blissful beaches and ancient sites

A 40-minute flight from Tahiti, Huahine is Polynesia at its most sublime (which is quite a feat). This is what you picture when you think about honeymoons, with slopes of tropical abundance sinking into eye-searingly blue lagoons. But there’s also culture aplenty, including the highest density of marae (temples) in the territory. Opportunities abound for snorkeling, horse riding, surfing…or doing nothing at all.

11. Dominica

For a Caribbean island experience you won’t forget

Forget everything you think you know about what a Caribbean island should look like: Dominica is the exception to the rule, in just about every way. For starters, it’s home to a whopping nine active volcanoes that tower up to 4921ft (1500m) above the island. Hidden in their midst are dense forests home to two parrots that live nowhere else on earth. The island boasts mostly black-sand beaches and spectacular waterfalls that tumble over cliffs into steaming-hot pools. The nation’s most famous attraction, meanwhile, is a remote lake that bubbles with boiling water. On the Caribbean’s so-called Nature Island, nothing is quite what it seems: even the rum tastes different, with each bottle infused with various botanicals meant to cure any ailment. This is the perfect destination for the honeymooners who want it all.

12. Praslin & La Digue, Seychelles

For a little taste of paradise

Beaches don’t get much better than the powdery, boulder-strewn strands fringing the islands of the Seychelles. Ferries run between Mahé, Praslin and La Digue, enabling multi-isle honeymoons with a bit of local interaction. Little La Digue is car-free, meaning you can truly slow down as you explore by bike or on foot. Praslin is home to good restaurants and the Unesco-listed Vallée de Mai nature reserve, where you can stroll beneath coco-de-mer palms (and giggle at their suggestive seeds).

13. Kaua’i, Hawaii, USA

For a lush getaway

Near the far western edges of the Hawai‘ian archipelago, the ‘Garden Island’ of Kaua‘i is both an adventure seeker’s playground and a destination for travelers keen on exploring a diverse and multicultural food scene. After a day of active exploring, oceanside restaurants and food trucks – many focused on blending Hawai‘ian, Japanese, Korean and Filipino flavours and harnessing local and sustainable produce – are the relaxed focus for planning another day of kayaking, cycling and exploring. Away from the cosmopolitan influence of Honolulu, Kaua‘i is also one of the island state’s most traditional destinations, with regular events and festivals showcasing both hula and Hawai‘ian slack-key guitar.

From venue to guest list, entertainment to legalities, planning a wedding is daunting and time-consuming. Many couples opt for a destination wedding, but what does travelling away from home mean in terms of organisation, cost and attendees? Lonely Planet writer Sofia Levin chose to get married in Lombok, away from her home in Melbourne, whereas Digital Editor Claire Naylor tied the knot close to where she lives in London. We asked them why they made these choices when planning their big days.

Why I had a destination wedding

Sofia Levin

The best decision I ever made was to get married overseas. If you enjoy plotting and planning trips abroad, a destination wedding is simply a level up. When I got married in 2017 in Lombok, Indonesia, everyone told us it would be the best day of our lives. What we didn’t expect was for guests to admit it was the best day of theirs, too. Here are some reasons why you should have a destination wedding.

1. It’s not all over in a few hours

I can’t fathom putting so much effort into the perfect day – months, if not years in advance – only to have the entire thing cut short just as everyone’s found the courage to hit the dance floor. With a destination wedding, the celebrations last at least a few days, giving you time to have meaningful connections with everyone there. If you find the right venue, you can avoid the curfew and party all night.

2. Your mates get a holiday, too

The vibe is better when you get married overseas because everyone is on vacation. Remember to give people plenty of notice, ideally 12–18 months, so they can plan ahead, take time off work and organise any onward travel, should they want to.

3. It can be cheaper

One of the reasons we got married overseas was so we could afford to pay for a holiday for the people we love. The Australian dollar is strong against the Indonesian rupiah and, because we avoided Bali, we were able to hire a resort for four nights and fill it with 70 of our nearest and dearest – for less than the average cost that an Australian couple pays on a wedding back on home soil. Guests covered flights, which were affordable with the amount of notice we gave. Granted, it would have been a different story if we wanted to get married further from home.

4. It helps to cut the guest list

There’s a general understanding that overseas weddings are more intimate, making it easier to be strict with who’s invited. It’s also easier to predict who might not be able to make it due to work commitments, the age of children, mobility issues and whether people might prefer to hold onto their savings – something you have to be comfortable with if you get married away from home.

5. All-inclusive wedding packages

We deliberately picked a smaller, independent resort so we could make the most of a high level of personal service, expertise and fill the place with wedding-only guests. When comparing quotes in Lombok, most included everything from a wedding planner and decorations to food-and-drinks packages. You need experts on the ground if it’s going to work.

6. An opportunity to experience other cultures

When you travel to a country other than your own, you are automatically exposed to other cultures. This is an added bonus when you get married overseas. Our guests became so friendly with staff that everyone freely shared insights into their religions and cultures, celebrating their differences together.

7. Not just another wedding

If you want your wedding to be memorable, you have to do something different. Weddings I’ve attended that stay top of mind break the formula of “aisle, vows, a big smooch, a table plan, a meal, speeches, a boogie, the end”. As a guest, my favourite weddings have been interstate or overseas and where the couples have made it their own, either through adding components of their heritage, getting guests involved or by picking a place that resonates with them. The best way to stand out is to commit to a destination wedding. Be smart, budget well, stay organised, find a team you trust and the best day of your life might be the best day of your guests’ lives, too.

Why I decided not to have a destination wedding

Claire Naylor

Having my favourite people all in one beautiful venue, standing on a clifftop or beach with near-guaranteed fabulous weather – it’s an amazing thought. And we did consider it, but we ended up getting married about 5 miles from where we lived in London. Here’s why.

1. The guest list

We knew who we wanted to be there, and could get the list to a very manageable 60 guests. But adding in a distant venue made things more difficult – would our elderly relatives be prepared to make a longer journey? What would we do about the staycationers; the members of our family who don’t own passports? How about our best pals who have three kids and can’t easily disappear for a week? Getting married overseas introduced a level of compromise when it came to our guests, which suddenly made the whole thing less appealing.

2. Where would we go anyway?!

Like many couples who have travelled together, there are a lot of places that hold significance for us, and we’d love to return there for a wedding celebration. Whilst the thought of shoving my gran on an overnight coach from Bangkok to Ko Tao was very entertaining, it probably would have killed her. Nearer destinations such as Tuscany or the Greek islands would have been stunning places to get married, however, at the time we were both working full-time and had a one-year-old, which didn’t allow a lot of flexibility to go off and explore potential venues.

3. Working our way through the admin

Living in one London borough whilst getting married in the adjacent London borough meant appointments at two register offices, many photocopies of ID, several interviews with official-looking people, and various forms that needed filling in. Doing this in my hometown was frustrating and boring – doing the same in an unfamiliar distant location where you don’t speak the language and can’t easily be there in person… well, that was all just too daunting for me.

4. The cost for the guests

Hosting any party can get expensive, but mention the “w” word and it always seems that the price suddenly goes up. The cost of attending destination weddings all adds up for the guests too, and we were keen to make sure that our celebration wasn’t a financial burden on anyone. If you don’t want people remembering your wedding for all the wrong reasons (ie how much it cost them to attend), it’s worth considering what contributions you can make to their trip, whether that’s organising transport to get there or paying for the accommodation.

5. The pressure!

And what if the guests don’t have a good time? What if your pals fork out thousands to be there on your big day and they think it’s average? You’re committing people to spending their valuable annual leave on your big event, and that was a responsibility that I just wasn’t willing to take on!

Destination wedding tips

How and where you have your wedding is a personal decision and depends very much on your circumstances. If you’re going to go ahead, here are some tips to bear in mind:
– Remote locations may mean there aren’t many photographers or musicians to choose from and you may need to fly or bus people in.

– Confidence in the venue and people who run it are key. Do in-depth research online, then have a reconnaissance trip and set up meetings with several places you have in mind. If you’re considering spending on a wedding, some resorts will put you up for free, while others at least give you a discount – just ask. If that’s not an option, set up phone and Skype calls. If someone is hard to get hold of, ditch them – you don’t want to be chasing people when organising a wedding. Read reviews, but always trust your gut.
– Compare quotes, negotiate, and don’t be afraid to ask for more. Venues will often match offers made by other resorts.

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Fiji’s islands are a truly seductive destination, seemingly tailor-made to fulfill your every romantic daydream. Whether you’re looking for a passion-filled escape with your loved one or a perfect honeymoon location, let us guide you around some of the best resorts Fiji has to offer for true romance.

There are plenty of Fiji resorts that entirely devote themselves to welcoming lovebirds with some serious island pampering, so you and your other half can enjoy all the private beaches, sandspit picnics and romantic sunsets you could dream of. Best of all, many Fijian resorts are small and intimate, some with fewer than 20 rooms, so you can really escape the crowds and make the most of your one-on-one time. Some resorts specialize in spas and wellness activities, while others offer an array of activities including scuba diving, river rafting and rainforest treks.

With these considerations, here are some of Fiji’s most romantic resorts where you can tuck a hibiscus flower behind an ear, grab a couple of cocktails, watch the Pacific sunset with someone special and truly get away from it all.

Likuliku Lagoon Resort

Many resorts can offer you a secluded beach, but Likuliku goes one step further with your own lagoon. Here on Malolo Island in the Mamanuca Island chain, you get more than just beachfront property; rather a series of traditional Fijian bures (thatched cottages) sits on stilts over the water, so the lap of the lagoon soothes you asleep and gently wakes you in the morning. If that’s not blissful enough, the resort’s luxurious Tatadra Spa can help you both unwind before considering some gentle activities, such as a short boat ride to Mociu Private Island for a swim and picnic, or snorkeling your way from your veranda to the lagoon’s fringing reef together.

Tokoriki Island Resort

You know a resort is serious about delivering the dreamiest of vacations when they have a Romance Coordinator on staff to look after everything, from in-room champagne and flowers to arranging spa treatments. Tokoriki’s private beachfront villas, set in verdant tropical landscapes, come with outdoor showers and personal infinity pools, and face into the west for perfect views of romantic sunsets in the Mamanuca Islands. Intimate star- and candle-lit dinners come as standard, or for real extravagance, you can even book your own butler service. There’s also a luxury spa carved into the side of a mountain, with water gently cascading down its volcanic stone walls. The spa puts an emphasis on treatments for couples, so try a massage for two to leave you both feeling utterly relaxed in one of the most beautiful retreats in Fiji.

Matamanoa Island Resort

Occupying an entire island in the Mamanuca chain, Matamanoa Island Resort offers a truly grown-up experience. Stylish, sophisticated and peaceful, it features 33 beachfront bures and villas overlooking a blindingly white, soft-sand beach. Most villas have private pools and beaches just steps from the room. The fun-loving staff is renowned for its uniquely Fijian welcome and traditions; and the hillside spa, with its prime treetop location, is the perfect place to indulge in some island pampering. Couples can also arrange a champagne-fuelled island hopping experience or a trip to the nearby pottery village on Tavua Island.

Tropica Island Resort

Tropica is another peaceful sanctuary in the Mamanuca Islands, conveniently located just off Fiji’s mainland and easy to reach. Head to the gourmet restaurant to sample authentic Fijian cuisine, washed down with a glass or two of bubbly, or spend your time floating happily together in the 82ft infinity pool. That’s if you can bring yourself to leave your accommodation of course. There are 30 recently renovated bures, suites and rooms – all but the latter have outdoor showers, patios and cozy deck swings, ideal for whiling away many a romantic hour together.

Blue Lagoon Cruises

For something a little bit different, why not consider spending at least a portion of your vacation at sea? The 68-passenger, adults-only Fiji Princess meanders through the Mamanuca and Yasawa Island chains on multi-day trips. The highlight? How about when the crew positions the ship right beside the famous Blue Lagoon beach, and ties it off to a coconut tree as you have happy hour on shore and dine beneath the palms? The cruise company has exclusive use of the famous beach, giving guests the chance to make the most of its legendarily crystalline waters. Three-, four- and seven-night cruises depart from Port Denarau.

Yasawa Island Resort

How do lobster omelets for breakfast sound? Pretty enchanting? That’s just a taster of the gourmet meals (including private beach picnics) served up at Yasawa Island Resort. Set on a gorgeous beach, the resort’s 18 air-conditioned bures have separate living and bedroom areas, outdoor showers and their own private beach hut. The stunning honeymoon bure is hidden from the rest of the resort with its own pool and even its own private beach. The resort’s also convenient to the Sawa-i-Lau caves, where you can swim in a natural grotto or explore an underwater passage to an adjoining chamber where carvings, paintings and inscriptions mark the walls. While this resort is aimed at couples seeking total remoteness, it’s still only a scenic 30-minute plane ride from Nadi International Airport.

Matangi Private Island Resort

What could be more romantic than heading to your own private island? Matangi, a luxury destination that regularly polls among the best resorts in the South Pacific offers just that. Just off Taveuni, Fiji’s fourth largest island, it’s reached by a 90-minute flight from Nadi International Airport. Guests stay in gorgeous airy beachfront bures, or you can treat yourself to a stay in a tree house like no other – nestled into the canopy where you can enjoy the views from the outdoor Jacuzzi on your wraparound deck. There is intimate gourmet dining, or you can take a boat to the verdant Horseshoe Bay for a private picnic.

Royal Davui Island Resort

Honeymooners or those celebrating a particularly special anniversary will find the private villas at the Royal Davui Island Resort, on one of Fiji’s southern islands, perfectly fit the occasion. Staggering views, gloriously refreshing plunge pools and spacious, modern rooms are on offer here, along with a range of activities. Don’t miss the chance to have a Sand Cay Beach Picnic on a tidal islet a short boat ride away from the island. A small resort boat will whizz you there with picnic, mats and sunshade packed, so all you need to do is kick back and relax together.

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As seemingly everyone jets off to international destinations, have you thought about staying put? Nobody ever said you can’t go on vacation in your own city.

If this interests you, let me introduce you to a new take on the beloved staycation – a term coined in the ’40s that took on stardom during the COVID-19 pandemic as we tried to convince ourselves that being trapped in our house was equivalent to a fabulous getaway.

I am not suggesting you stay home. Rather, visit a new part of your city or town (no further than 2 hours away), snag a stunning hotel room and indulge in relaxation and hotel amenities.

This is what my boyfriend Dylan and I decided to do for our two-year anniversary. (Call it a “baecation.”) Since neither of us had time for a long getaway, we opted for the Rockaways instead. This beachy part of Queens is a staple weekend haunt for New Yorkers, though one I rarely take part in. I never really could get with hauling all my beach supplies on the subway just to get scorched under the sun – and then have to take the subway back home.

This time, we approached it differently.

Where we stayed

An important part of a staycation? The stay! It is worth it to choose a hotel that provides comfort and amenities. The ideal hotel only requires you to go off campus if you need of a change of scenery. And that is precisely what we got at the Rockaway Hotel.

We had the pleasure of being hosted by the hotel, and ended up staying in a Deluxe King room with ocean views and a terrace. The room was cozy and perfectly embodied the beachy vibe – although we spent much more time enjoying the amenities than hanging in the room.

We spent most of our time in the heated pool. (If there is one thing we love to do, it’s swim.) Dylan and I posted up in one of the hotel’s cabanas and drank frozen Aperol spritzes while hopping between the warm water of the pool and the outdoor saunas. We went to the pool a full four times during our two-day stay.

What we ate

Margies: We ate here twice during our stay. The first night, I had a dirty martini, and Dylan enjoyed an old-fashioned. The meal was fantastic. We can’t seem to skip burrata if it’s on the menu, so that’s what we started with. We also enjoyed calamari with sweet chili sauce, crisp grilled asparagus, fries (obviously) and a steak to split. For dessert, we had cheesecake with a candle in it in honor of our anniversary. The second time around, we went a bit more casual and split the burger and the Little Gem Caesar salad. It was arguably the perfect meal.

The Pool House: This outdoor restaurant next to the hotel pool is an airy, relaxing place to start the day; we did so on our second day. There was a bit of a wait for our breakfast, but it was arguably one of the most photogenic pieces of toast I’ve ever received. Totally worth it.

Supply Shop: As we were leaving to go home, we grabbed a coffee from here, which is located off the lobby. The space also has a number of pastries and treats worth trying.

Rippers (offsite): During our bike ride, we stopped at this boardwalk restaurant, serving grass-fed burgers and some of the best fries I’ve had in a while. Located on Beach 86th St, it has an endearing retro vibe and provides the perfect lunch spot, whether you are biking like us or hanging out in the water. We chose to split some fries as a snack, and I also enjoyed a Yuzu margarita while Dylan opted for a beer.

Happy Jack’s Burger Bar (offsite): Located across the street from the hotel, this small burger joint is a casual spot for pre-dinner drinks at a reasonable price. I had a glass of wine, and Dylan had a beer. The burgers looked delicious, but we knew we wanted to catch the sunset, so we ended up heading back to the hotel’s rooftop.

Board Walk Bagels & Delicatessen (offsite): After checking out, we stopped by this breakfast spot for a massive sausage, egg and cheese bagel to take with us on the road.

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Spa treatment: No baecation is complete without a couple’s spa treatment – and boy, did we get the ultimate experience. We opted for the sugar body scrub, which included being rubbed down with an exfoliating scrub, sipping rosé in the sauna, taking a shower and having shea butter massaged into our skin.

Bike rides: On day two, we decided to take out the complimentary bikes the hotel has for guests, which we had been eyeing since we arrived. The beach is ridiculously close, and although it wasn’t warm enough to go in the water, we cruised along the boardwalk for 2 hours, taking in the scenery and getting a little exercise.

Pool: Embrace your inner child and take part in the joy of playing in the pool. Show off your underwater handstand, see who can hold their breath the longest, race to the other end of the pool…the options are endless.

Sauna: The hotel has an outdoor sauna next to the pool and another in the spa. Both are fantastic, and what better way to recover than sweating out those toxins?

Beach: Whether you bike or walk, the beach is super close, and there are tons of little shops and restaurants along the boardwalk. If you’re brave, dip your feet in!

Sunset: Is there anything more romantic than watching the sunset over cocktails with your significant other? On our second night, we nearly missed it and ended up running to the Rockaway Rooftop, dirty martini and old fashioned in hand, to watch. On this perfectly clear, temperate evening, we got to see the sun sink below the horizon while the entire outline of Manhattan’s skyline shimmered in the distance. It was a beautiful moment.

What makes this experience so special?

Sometimes the best baecation is a staycation – a lesson I learned after my two-day getaway last week. This ended up being such a joyful getaway and a chance to enjoy each other’s company. The Rockaways make for a great staycation from NYC because it’s close yet a world away from the city. We traded in our work wear for swimsuits, and commutes for relaxing rides on a beach cruiser. We forgot about everything happening in our real lives – and instead drank cocktails and played in the pool. I would have stayed a week if time had allowed.

Getting there

As you may have learned from my walk down the length of Manhattan with my colleague Ann Douglas Lott, Dylan does, in fact, have a car, which we used to get to the Rockaways. That being said, there are a few public transportation options.

The ferry, which costs just a bit more than the subway, and allows you to experience the beauty of New York City from a different perspective, docks within walking distance of the hotel.

For the subway, the A and S trains both get relatively close to the hotel.

If it is convenient, I’d recommend taking the ferry. It’s a glorious ride.

Chamidae Ford was a guest of the Rockaway Hotel. Lonely Planet does not accept freebies in exchange for positive coverage.

Monterey, on California’s central coast offers adventure and exploration, culture and food and sunny afternoons at the beach. The wide empty road, salt-tinged sea air and ornamental Cypress trees all work to create a unique and stunning environment.

Monterey county is home to famous sights like 17-mile drive and the Spanish Bay golf course, charming towns like Carmel-by-the-Sea and Pacific Grove, the world-class Monterey aquarium, and stunning State Parks and beaches, here’s where to see the best of the best.

Must-do in Monterey

Point Lobos State Reserve

While Monterey County is a fully customizable destination, you can’t miss Point Lobos State Reserve. This dramatically beautiful and distinctly California park boasts forests, sea cliffs, wild flowers and tide pools all in one place. Point Lobos State Reserve also has some of the most amazing views in central California (which is saying a lot) and it is accessible for all travelers young and old – with paved paths and adventurous hikes.

17-mile drive

17-mile drive is another must-do attraction in Monterey. This iconic stretch of highway 1 takes you past some of California’s loveliest (and, of course, most elite) homes, as well as the breathtaking white sand Spanish Bay beach. Along the way are stands of ancient Cypress trees, and of course plenty of seals and sea lions.

For a special Spanish Bay experience, make your way to the Inn at Spanish Bay at sunset, when you can watch a bagpiper play along the sea cliffs every night of the year — a nod to the Scottish-style golf course.

Monterey Bay Aquarium

Animal lovers (and kids) will want to make a stop at the Monterey Bay Aquarium, one of America’s most popular aquariums. It’s a massive facility and a great place to learn about California’s marine ecosystems. The aquarium is at the end of Monterey’s historic Cannery Row, the city’s main tourist stretch. From there, it is also easy to check out the Monterey pier and enjoy sea food or a sweet treat overlooking the water.

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Bixby Bridge

Lastly, round out your visit to the central coast by making the drive to Bixby Creek Bridge, about halfway between downtown Monterey and the entrance to Big Sur. The bridge featured in films as well as stealing the show in dozens of car commercials. It’s a photographer’s dream—an architecturally striking bridge in a magnificent wild locale.

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Unexpected gems

Although Monterey is a famous tourist destination, there are plenty of places and activities to surprise you and keep return visits interesting.

Farmers’ markets

Monterey County has a bounty of agriculture nearby, and the farmers’ markets are incredible. There is one nearly every day of the week, but the one in Monterey on Tuesday nights is the largest. It has fresh produce, but also food stands from local restaurants and art vendors.

Carmel-by-the-Sea

Beyond Monterey proper lie the quaint villages of Carmel-by-the-Sea and Pacific Grove. They are both just a few miles from Monterey. Carmel is perfect for window shopping, with boutiques, galleries and gift shops. Make a stop at the Tuck Box for an English style tea in a storybook-style cottage, or grab sandwiches from Nielsen market to eat alfresco; Carmel has a historic mission and several nice parks to enjoy a picnic. Downtown runs straight into the town’s long, white sand beach, so you can end the afternoon there.

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Pacific Grove

Pacific Grove is the less popular of the two, but it is a classic seaside village, complete with Victorian architecture and a tight knit community. The Lovers’ Point Beach in Pacific Grove has a great view, and right up the street is the Lovers’ Point book shop, which in addition to their awesome literary selection has a cafe with unique drinks (try the signature lavender latte). Pacific Grove is also home to Asilomar, a retreat center with hiking trails through forests and along sand dunes and sea cliffs.

Where to eat & drink

Best eats

Monterey’s food has upscale dining in spades as well as casual watering holes. For seafood, the classic Sardine Factory or more rustic Monterey Fish House are both good options. The best sandwiches in Monterey County are without a doubt found at Mundo’s; make sure to try the Argentine tri-tip.

Craft brews

Enjoy local brews and beer snacks at Alvarado Street Brewery or check out the Central Coast outpost of Bay Area brewery Fieldwork, which opened a beer garden in Monterey recently; both spots have great ambiance, and children and pets are welcome.

Wine lovers

For wine drinkers, there are plenty of options on the Central Coast, which, although not as well-known for wine as Sonoma or Napa, produces plenty of world-class wines. Cowgirl Winery in Carmel Valley has a nice tasting room with a Western twist– it’s located in a reclaimed wood barn, and also includes a boutique that sells local jewelry, gifts and, of course, cowgirl hats.

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From airport issues to abuse experienced while out and about, many are well acquainted with the precarity of traveling while Black.

This becomes even more tenuous for Black LGBTIQ+ travelers, considering it’s still illegal to be gay in around 70 countries. Even where it’s legal, LGBTIQ+ people have few, if any, protections. Here are some things to keep in mind when it comes to Black LGBTIQ+ travel.

The lack of travel resources is a huge problem

Googling “Black LGBTIQ+ travel” tends to bring up resources primarily on Black travel or LGBTIQ+ travel, but rarely for those who are both. As a result, Black queer travelers have to undertake a lot of the legwork themselves – research is crucial to understand the precautions they may need to take abroad.

“My worry is usually how comfortably I can just exist in a space and how safe it is for me to go wandering alone, especially if I’m not presenting in a particularly feminine way,” says Garen Abel Unokan, a Black queer woman who often travels solo to countries like Morocco, Spain and Nigeria.

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“I’ve always found the most interesting things just by walking around, so it’s really frustrating to have to Google “What is (X country) like for Black people” or “(X country) gay people” but it’s essential if I want to have the kind of holiday experience where I’m not constantly looking over my shoulder.”

Look up the destination’s LGBTIQ+ protections

In the face of very few robust sources of information, looking up the policies pertaining to LGBTIQ+ people in the holiday destination tends to be a useful and necessary starting place for many travelers. But it doesn’t necessarily give an indication of widely held attitudes or the important community-focused work that might be taking place.

Black South African queer traveler Tshegofatso Senne says looking up a country’s rights is always among her top priorities.

“The first thing I always do is to check the homosexuality laws in each country,” she says “The second is to do some research on safety for women in that particular country and if there are certain things I should avoid doing or places I should give a miss as a result.”

“I keep in mind the protections, or lack thereof, of LGBTIQ+ in the country, and read articles to learn more about LGBTIQ+ people (living there),” says Gloria Kimbulu, another queer Black woman. “One concern I have for the future is what it would look like to travel with a partner or friends who are visibly queer in terms of safety because as someone who is largely not read as queer, that of course changes when traveling with a partner or friends who are.”

Visits to African or Caribbean nations are harder

Out of 72 countries where homosexuality is criminalized, 32 of them are African nations and nine are Caribbean islands. With Ugandan president Yoweri Museveni describing being LGBTIQ+ as a “western import” and former Zimbabwean leader Robert Mugabe calling homosexuality “un-African,” it’s little wonder Black queer travelers may not feel safe in the countries their parents and grandparents refer to as home.

“I wasn’t disappointed by experiences in Nigeria and Ghana because I had no expectations of safety there,” says Maya Okonkwo, a Black lesbian. “I stayed firmly in the closet for the entire duration of my stay, silent as family friends blamed everything from Brexit to America’s teen pregnancy on ‘the gays.’ The homophobia is another dimension of intense patriarchy present in many African cultures and it was psychologically exhausting to witness.”

But there’s a lot of joy to be found within local LGBTIQ+ communities and many different ways to find them.

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For many, traveling is a way of forming relationships and bonds worldwide and for Gloria, her relationship with travel centers on connecting with people from the African diaspora in countries like Puerto Rico and Cuba.

“In Cuba, I met up with an Afro-Cuban LGBTIQ+ organization – it’s helpful to look into whether or not there is a group or organization you can meet up with if meeting with local LGBTIQ+ people is a priority to you.”

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Dating apps and meet-up sites prove especially useful when trying to connect with communities within your holiday destination, plus they are more knowledgeable about where and what will be good.

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“[Another priority I have] is to try and see if I can find queer people online that are in those same areas, whether it’s to meet up with them or just to get some recommendations for Black and queer-rich areas that I can make sure I go to,” says Tshegofatso.

“Remember that every single country has queer people living there – there’s room to meet and have fun with other queer people in countries you may not have assumed have a queer population.”